Forgiveness (aka Snakes or Fish, Scorpions or Eggs?)

This message was first delivered at Cove United Methodist Church in Coleman Falls, Virginia on July 28, 2013. It is based on the lectionary text Luke 11:1-13

at the beginning of the sermon I let the congregation know that although I had planned to preach about fathers not giving their children things that are dangerous, but giving good things...while writing the sermon the Spirit led me in a different direction. And though snakes and fish and scorpions and eggs would be mentioned in the scripture – it no longer was the focus.

Luke 11: 1-13: He was praying in a certain place, and after he had finished, one of his disciples said to him, “Lord, teach us to pray, as John taught his disciples.” He said to them, “When you pray, say: Father, hallowed be your name. Your kingdom come. Give us each day our daily bread. And forgive us our sins, for we ourselves forgive everyone indebted to us. And do not bring us to the time of trial.”

And he said to them, “Suppose one of you has a friend, and you go to him at midnight and say to him, ‘Friend, lend me three loaves of bread; for a friend of mine has arrived, and I have nothing to set before him.’And he answers from within, ‘Do not bother me; the door has already been locked, and my children are with me in bed; I cannot get up and give you anything.’ I tell you, even though he will not get up and give him anything because he is his friend, at least because of his persistence he will get up and give him whatever he needs.

So I say to you, Ask, and it will be given you; search, and you will find; knock, and the door will be opened for you. For everyone who asks receives, and everyone who searches finds, and for everyone who knocks, the door will be opened. Is there anyone among you who, if your child asks for a fish, will give a snake instead of a fish? Or if the child asks for an egg, will give a scorpion? If you then, who are evil, know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more will the heavenly Father give the Holy Spirit to those who ask him!” (This is the word of the Lord...)

Two boys were sitting on the front steps of the church one afternoon. "I bet you don't know the Lord's Prayer," one boy challenged his friend. "I bet I do!" the friend replied. "I bet you a dollar you don't." "I bet you five dollars I do." "Okay, let's hear it." "Now I lay me down to sleep. I pray the Lord my soul to keep. If I should die before I wake, I pray the Lord my soul to take." "All right, here's your five dollars. I didn't know you knew it."

The King James Version of today's Gospel Lesson might sound a little more familiar than the New Revised Standard translation that I just read: Our Father which art in heaven, Hallowed be thy name. Thy kingdom come. Thy will be done, as in heaven, so in earth. Give us day by day our daily bread. And forgive us our sins; for we also forgive every one that is indebted to us. And lead us not into temptation; but deliver us from evil. Even that is a little different from the prayer so many of us have recited for years. The familiar “Our Father, which are in Heaven, hallowed be thy name. Thy kingdom come. Thy will be done, on earth as it is in heaven. Give us this day our daily bread. Forgive us our trespasses as we forgive those who trespass against us. And lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil. For thine is the kingdom, and the power, and the glory, forever. Amen.”

At one point in my life I worshiped at a Presbyterian church. I never could get used to debts and debtors. But has the familiar become so routine that we don't hear the message anymore?

There are a lot of positive reasons to memorize prayers, hymns and Bible verses. When Howard Rutledge's plane was shot down over Vietnam, he parachuted into a little village, where he was attacked, stripped naked and imprisoned. For the next seven years, he endured brutal treatment, sometimes shackled in excruciating positions and left for days. Later, he wrote a book about his ordeal and gave a powerful testimony as to the importance of remembered Scripture.

With the sights, smells, and sounds of death all around him, Rutledge wanted to know about the part of himself that will never die. In solitary confinement, there was no minister or Bible for answers to the spiritual matters of life he had long neglected. Rutledge thought back to his Sunday School days in Tulsa, Okla., and tried desperately to recall snatches of Scripture, sermons and hymns of his childhood. The first three-dozen songs came relatively easy.

One night during a huge thunderstorm, a bolt of lightning knocked out the lights. In the dark prison, he laid down to sleep listening to waves of rain falling. Suddenly, he began humming his 37th song, “Showers of blessings, Showers of blessings we need! Mercy drops round us are falling, but for the showers we plead.”

Howard Rutledge and fellow POW’s, like Harry Jenkins in a nearby cell, struggled to rediscover their faith. They would often use priceless seconds of communication to help each other recall Scripture verses and Bible stories.

Rutledge wrote, “Everyone knew the Lord’s Prayer and the Twenty-third Psalm,” but the camp’s favorite verse, the one that prisoners recalled first and quoted most often, was John 3:16, “For God so loved the world, that He gave……”

He described how much time he spent trying to remember what he heard growing up in Sunday School and was amazed at what he did recall. Looking back, he realized the importance of memorizing verses from the Bible.

And I agree, memorization is a good thing. But I caution you against letting the familiar become rote. A mechanical recitation is not the same as praying.

Hear the word's of the prayer from a couple of different translations: From the Good News Translation: ‘Father: May your holy name be honored; may your Kingdom come. Give us day by day the food we need. Forgive us our sins, for we forgive everyone who does us wrong. And do not bring us to hard testing.’ From Eugene Peterson's The Message: Father, Reveal who you are. Set the world right. Keep us alive with three square meals. Keep us forgiven with you and forgiving others. Keep us safe from ourselves and the Devil.

As I mentioned in the children's sermon – the prayer can be examined in three basic parts: Praise and honor to God, a request that God provide what we need daily, and forgiveness for when we fall short.

Let's examine those three sections together:
Our Father which art in heaven, hallowed be thy name”
Father, may your holy name be honored”
Father, reveal who you are”
Thy kingdom come”
May your kingdom come”
Set the world right.”

In this first section – we recognize the Father is above all. He is in heaven and is worthy of praise and honor. He alone has the power to set the world right, to bring his kingdom, when the whole creation is restored and rid of sin, and when God’s holiness and splendor is revealed in its totality. Romans chapter 8 speaks of the cosmic need for His return, for the kingdom to come, and this prayer petitions God to bring it to pass. The first element of prayer has to do with the authority of the Father being fully established on the earth, and for His glory and splendor to be revealed at this time.

The second section is about asking for what we need:
Give us this day our daily bread”
Give us day by day the food we need”
Keep us alive with three square meals”

This deals with the area of the disciples’ (and our) physical needs. The Father is also the provider for His children, and thus the disciples are taught to beseech Him for their daily needs. I believe that bread stands not only for “food” in a general sense, but also for all of the other areas of physical need. The Father is the Sustainer of life and here He is to be petitioned to meet our physical needs.

And the third section is about spiritual needs:
And forgive us our sins, for we ourselves forgive everyone indebted to us.”
Forgive us our sins, for we forgive everyone who does us wrong.”
Keep us forgiven with you and forgiving others.”

This section is both challenging and comforting. Forgiveness. There is no sinless perfection in this life. Sure would be nice if we got some sort of “sin shield” at baptism. But we are human and Jesus knew that his disciples (then and now) would fall short. I know that I fall short on a daily basis! So, Jesus taught his disciples to pray for forgiveness for their sins. Hard to believe, but even the apostles sinned. We can think of Peter’s denial of our Lord, or Thomas, who refused to believe until he saw and touched Jesus himself. As all creation awaits and yearns for the coming of the Kingdom of God, as man’s body yearns for the provisions of God for its physical needs, so the spirit of man desperately needs the forgiveness of sins committed and God’s protection from committing further sin. In order to enjoy fellowship with God, the barrier of our sins must be removed by His forgiveness. There is an on-going need for this, and it is for this that Jesus taught us to pray.

I believe He was not teaching that we must forgive before the Father will forgive us (which would mean that forgiveness is conditioned upon our works), but that the two work handin-hand. We need forgiveness but we also need to forgive others. Not in order to earn God's forgiveness – but because the very act of forgiving others is healing. When you are able to put down the burden then you can walk away from it. Today's society tells us that forgiveness is hard, that sometimes it is even impossible. We are encouraged to forgive but not to forget. And when we hear about people forgiving what we think would be impossible, we sometimes shake our heads in wonder. In 2006 there was a school shooting in Pennsylvania, a man stormed into a one room schoolhouse and shot 10 girls before killing himself. Five of the girls died. People around the world were stunned to hear words of forgiveness from the Amish community that was affected. It was difficult for some to understand. But they understood the value of forgiveness isn't just for the forgiven – it also affects the forgiver.

A story from the Zen Buddhist tradition illuminates the point: Two monks, going to a neighboring monastery, walked side by side in silence. They arrived at a river they had to cross. That season, waters were higher than usual. On the bank, a young woman was hesitating and asked the younger of the two monks for help. He exclaimed, 'Don't you see that I am a monk, that I took a vow of chastity?' 'I require nothing from you that could impede your vow, but simply to help me to cross the river,' replied the young woman with a little smile.'I...not...I can...do nothing for you,' said the embarrassed young monk.'It doesn't matter,' said the elderly monk. 'Climb on my back and we will cross together.'Having reached the other bank, the old monk put down the young woman who, in return, thanked him with a broad smile. She left their side and both monks continued their route in silence. Close to the monastery, the young monk could not stand it anymore and said, 'You shouldn't have carried that person on your back. It's against our rules.''This young woman needed help and I put her down on the other bank. You didn't carry her at all, but she is still on your back,' replied the older monk.

Forgiveness is putting the burden down.

Then there is the petition, lead us not into temptation, do not bring us to hard testing, or my favorite (from The Message) “keep us safe from ourselves and the Devil.” This, I believe, is the request that God enable us to deal with sin at its very roots, rather than waiting for its bearing of fruit. It is not a request that God “cease and desist” from tempting us, for we are told (in the book of James) that God does not tempt; instead, it is our expression of a desire on our part not to be tempted. Thus, the prayer of the disciple should acknowledge the reality of his sin and consequent need for forgiveness, but at the same time should seek to avoid sin altogether by being kept even from solicitation to sin.

And so through these words that Jesus gave his disciples – we have the WHAT of prayer. The rest of today's Gospel lesson gives us two more important principles. The HOW and the WHY. Perseverance and expectation.

Remember the guy who needed bread from his neighbor to feed an unexpected guest? When the neighbor said that he was already in bed and didn't want to wake his children...Jesus indicated that he should continue to knock until he got what he needed. Prayer is not a magic wand – we have to persevere. In the process of praying, (including praising God) and listening for his direction – we must not be faint of heart. We have to pray without ceasing.

And we must pray with the expectation that our Heavenly Father will provide what we need. Earthly fathers love their children and delight in giving good gifts to them. Human fathers do not give their children “bad” things when they have asked for something good. Put a little differently, earthly fathers do not give their children gifts which will harm them when they are asked for those things which will help them. Fish and eggs are both helpful. They strengthen the physical body. Snakes and scorpions are both harmful to the physical body. God, as a Heavenly Father, does not give us those things which will be harmful to us when we have asked for those things which are beneficial to us.

Too often, at least in my own experience, I find myself asking God for snakes and scorpions, rather than for fish and eggs. I may ask for a snake, but God gives me a fish. I may wish for a scorpion, but God gives me eggs. If God does not give us evil gifts when we ask for the good, He does give us good gifts even when we seek those which are harmful to us. Because God is a good God, a loving Father, He can not only be expected to answer our petitions, but to do so in a way that is for our highest good.

I have been fortunate to have a wonderful earthly father...so I understand the concept of a loving Heavenly Father. A father who is worthy of our praise, who can be depended upon for the needs of our physical bodies and who desires good things for us spiritually. Who hears our prayers and answers them.


And now, with the confidence of God's beloved children, let us share together the familiar Lord's prayer: 

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